- Resources for Help, Support & Prevention Tools
- Stopbullying.gov – Get Help Now
- Adults Get Bullied Too .PDF
- Prevention, Kids, Youth Development
- Respond to Bullying, Kids, Schools, Youth Development
- School Bullying Prevention
- Helping Kids Deal With Bullies
- The Long Reach of Adult Bullying
Bullying: By definition, a bully is someone that threatens or actually commits physical or verbal harm to another person, based on a real or perceived imbalance of power over his or her victim.
- This kind of human behavior, which is commonly mistaken as being just a childhood issue, comes with a lifetime of consequences for both the victims and the bullies.
- It’s a type of intimidation as old as the earliest known ancient societies.
Asking for help and reporting a bully’s destructive behavior is the first step in resolving these issues. Parents, family, friends and coworkers must listen to victims and be advocates for them, if necessary.
- Tolerating bullying will not help anyone, the victim or the perpetrator.
“Bullying is not just a harmful rite of passage or an inevitable part of growing up,” William E. Copeland, PhD, a psychiatry professor at Duke University and lead author of a bullying study, published in JAMA Psychiatry, wrote. “Victims of bullying are at increased risk for emotional disorders in adulthood. Bullies [and their] victims are at a high risk and most likely to think about or plan suicide.”
- Campus Safety Magazine, an outlet that serves high school, college and hospital safety administrators, reports that around 70 percent of students ages 12-18 say they were victims of bullying at least once or twice during the school year and just over 4 percent said they were bullied every single day.
- The lasting mental health damage of bullying can lead to severe consequences.
- Victims often fail to report this behavior for fear no one will believe them if there wasn’t a witness to the bullying or, sadly, feel that they somehow deserve to be bullied.
According to stopbullying.gov
- Over half (52 percent) of young people report being cyber bullied
- Embarrassing or damaging photographs taken without the knowledge or consent of the subject has been reported by 11 percent of adolescents and teens
- Of the young people who reported cyber bullying incidents against them, one-third (33 percent) of them reported that their bullies issued online threats
- Over half (55 percent) of all teens who use social media have witnessed outright bullying via that medium
- An astounding 95 percent of teens who witnessed bullying on social media report that others, like them, have ignored the behaviour
- More than half of young people surveyed say that they never confide in their parents when cyber bullying happens to them
- Only one out of every six parents of adolescents and teens are even aware of the scope and intensity involved with cyber bullying
There are several variations of bullying that can happen to both children and adults, in the workplace, school, home or other social environments. These can include:
- Verbal: abuse that includes name calling about any aspect of a person, including their body type, race, gender, sexual orientation and religion. Spreading derogatory rumors about someone is also considered a form of bullying
- Physical bullying: abuse in the form of threatened or actual physical harm
- Coercion: this is a form of extorting or blackmailing victims by insinuating some form of harm if the bully’s rules on any given matter are disobeyed or ignored
- Isolation: this is when bullies try to isolate a person by intentionally leaving them out of activities or declaring to others that the victim should not be included for some reason or another
- Signal bullying: abuse that might not manifest as verbal, but a bully’s intimidating gestures or posturing clearly signal potential harm
- Workplace: intimidation or abuse, most often verbal, from superiors or colleagues at work that creates a hostile environment, poor productivity and high turnover rates
- Cyber: a more and more common form of bullying that takes place on social media platforms – Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter – via threatening emails and or text messages
While most states have some form of anti-bullying policies, regulations or laws, it is not always easy for victims of bullying to come forward. This applies to both children and adults.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC) 2017 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance, nearly 15 percent of students admitted to being victims of cyber-bullying in the past year. High-school aged girls had a greater likelihood of being victims.
Stopbullying.gov states “Cyberbullying is bullying that takes place over digital devices like cell phones, computers, and tablets. Cyberbullying can occur through SMS, Text, and apps, or online in social media, forums, or gaming where people can view, participate in, or share content.” It includes but is not limited to;
- Sending, posting, or sharing negative, harmful, false, or mean content about someone else.
It also includes sharing personal or private information about someone else causing embarrassment or humiliation.
The most common places where cyberbullying occurs are:
- Social Media
- Text Message
- Instant Message
Some cyberbullying crosses the line into unlawful or criminal behavior.
Dr. Copeland’s research noted elevated rates of psychiatric disorders – anxiety, panic disorder, depression as well as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) – in victims of bullying and bullies themselves. These issues come with their own symptoms as well, including substance use disorders.
- Data compiled by the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) finds that about half of people who suffer from mental illness during their lives will also struggle with a substance use disorder, such as drug addiction or alcoholism.
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